I used to think net-relationship is so lame because I don't know what Love is??? Many times i wondered, how can two people (online) falling in love without seeing each other (in real life) of spending time together. With love, you can not see it, or touch it, but can be felt with it. That's what love is all about (i think). How can you tell if you are in LOVE? Well, i don't know, but sometimes I feel like there is a magic arrow that shoot into my heart. It's an uneasy feeling, but it feels good (sometimes). have any of you ever felt that way before? (Don't lie now) hehe.... :-)) Anyway, here's my SAD LOVE STORY!!!\r\n
\r\nOne summer afternoon, i posted my profile at some matrimonial site, days past i got many proposals, but none of them clicked. One evening i saw someone from my same State, contacted me. I went thru his pofile, liked it, and accepted the proposal. The guy named ......, Thou he was from my same state but he lived in the United States of America that time. the distance between us was like from Earth to Moon, so was difficult for us to meet.\r\n
\r\nThe very same day i received an e-mail, it was his. He wanted to know about ME. I wrote everything, rather sent him my detailed Bio-data and a snap. And u know, i forgot to attach the snap :-D. Suddenly i received another e mail, saying "you forgot to attach ur snap". I was like Oh my God!! " What an instant reply". I was kinda impressed, then i attached the file, and the SILSILA began, we started chatting on .....messenger, write/reply emails everyday for approx. 5 weeks.\r\n
\r\nOne day he said rather asked..."My family wants to see you". Hmm... now i handed his Bio-data to my dad, he liked it, then both the families contacted each other, and finally the day came when i was suppose to see his family, and the BAD part was he was not coming to see me as he recently shifted to Bangalore and was not getting any off. Still i agreed, we went to Jaipur (his home town) and everything was like so new to me, let me tell u a secret...(i was very nervous), he cheered me up over the chat and said not to worry, everything will be fine. Now it was 5:30 in the evening and his family members came (we were at my uncle's place), i prayed and faced the interview (he called it as an interview....a matrimonial interview). I was so happy to see his family, they were all good, but i would let out one secret :-) ( i didn't liked her sister). I don;t know why? Whatever everything went fine and they left... after few hours we too left. We were on the way and it started raining heavily, and i cought cold, a severe one! We reached home around 2300hrs. Two days past there was no reply from their side, everyone was like why didn't they called? My mum asked dad to call his parents just to know their answer, his dad picked the phone and he said sorry the Patrika's (Janm Kundali) are not matching!!\r\nI was very SAD.....it happens rite??? \r\n
\r\nAfter a week i found him online again.... i felt he did not wanted to talk or whatever, i msgd him hello, he replied and he was sorry, but i was curious to know the reason....coz for we youngsters janm kundali's is no big deal.... he said, u r far way too good, but a little over weighted (more than him, he was kinda skinny). After that we never talked.\r\nTwo months passed and i received his e-mail saying what if we are not married we can still be in touch with each other, why not like good friends?? I agreed, time passed we use to exchange e-mails regularly, he called me everyday and we like best of friends, One night he called and said "I started Liking you".\r\n
\r\nIt was Feb.14th, Yes Valentine's Day!!!, i got nothing to do that day, i went online it was his e-mail with a beautiful card.....Happy Valentine's Day to Each Other!!!!.\r\n
\r\nThe next day he called....and i asked how was his val day? He said i don't have anyone in particular to go out with...so then i made my first move...i said i too started liking you...\r\n
\r\nNow i was his "So called Girl friend". We continued chatting and calling each other. I had a wonderful time chatting with him, days past i said I Love You!!! and asked him "Do you like me for real?" Don't know how i come up with that question, but i really like the result. He told me he likes me for REAL, i was shocked at the same time happy, but he said i do like you...but still need time to think. Since that day i am waiting for him....................\r\n
\r\nGennie